Long time no post. Finally an update. Haha.
Inspired? Nah. Buying time.
I think it's already been a month now that I've been single and so far so good.
Actually I've been enjoying the set up. Don't want any responsibilities.
Date Date Date.
Ayoko na nung tipong may aalalahanin pa ko kapag umalis tapos hindi nagpaalam sakin kung san pupunta o vice versa. Yung nag papaalam ako sa kinauukulan na masahol pa sa magulang. May nagbabawal. Selos. In short, ayoko na ng may nakiki alam sakin. Haha. Nightmare ako maging girlfriend. Jowk.
I've decided to have this set up because I'm not ready for a committed relationship yet. I don't quite remember being single anyway. For all the past I've always exerted effort to the point of getting hurt and left disappointed.
All of us, of course when we meet someone we fell in love with wants to be with him or her forever. Clearly, that did not happen to me which is fine. I'm young. Need not to be in a hurry.
Since I'm talking about my singleness and celebrating the dating game.
I'll reveal the biggest turn off and turn ons.
( As if someone's interested to know anyway.)
First Turn Ons
1) Chinky Eyed Guys
- Big Sucker for those guys. Asian looking guys not to the point of it's OA already that he looks like a korean boy band. I don't actually look for the overall face. Not looking for a handsome guy but at first glance always looks for the eyes. Like they say, mirror of the soul.
2) Responsible
- Need someone who's not a potato couch that lies around all day, eats then sleeps. Don't need a rich guy but someone who plans and thinks for the future.
3) Maturity
- Don't do drama on me because surely I'll punch the face. And insecurity do not sell to me.
4) Clean
- I want a presentable guy who I can bring to my mom. I'm not discriminating or anything but I don't like small guys in big shirts with caps then baggy pants.
There, probably the most of it for the turn on.
Here's for the Turn offs:
1) Promise Breakers
- No need to make a promise if someone's going to break it anyway. It's useless. Just words out of thin air. No committment.
2) Liar Liar Liar - Big Fat Liar
- What's the point of doing it anyway? If I have a bf let's say for example then he have somewhere to go to with friends or what not, why not tell me honestly than telling me that you're in the office or doing something else. Another thing, if i ask a question, be sure to answer it truthfully because whatever the reason even if i get mad the results will still be the same since when I find out that it's a lie, the situation will probably get worst. Basically love is founded on trust. If you don't trust a person, will you love him? No.
3) Insecure / Selfish
- Don't like a guy who always compares or gets mad when I'm not spending time with him. I hate it when my time is alloted for one specific person. It's like "did you buy me or my time already? You don't own me". I want my space. I still like privacy. If I'm open to something, won't hide it anyway. Don't need to spy or look into my accounts/ cellphone without permission. Ask. It won't hurt.
4) Choosy / Picky/ Pihikan when it comes to food
- I like to cook and eat. I don't like someone who's super picky and doesn't eat his veggies!
5) Snoring
There. That serves as my list.
Hope I get many date. Haha.
